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Jackey Backman is an internationally recognized speaker, trainer and personal development expert. Her heartfelt, fun and "tell it like it is" approach to life make her as lovable as she is entertaining. Enjoy the blog!

One decision leads to world peace?

Posted on Thursday, Jul. 23rd 2009 by Jackey Backman

The follow is an excerpt from email conversation I had recently with a client about choosing Peace , Enjoy…
message from client…
Jackey,
In Gozo at Success Intensive 10,11,12 you said once that the only choice we ever have to make is between peace and no peace. Is that the proper wording?
And what do you mean by peace?
My thesis [...]

Universal Butt Kicking

Posted on Thursday, Jul. 9th 2009 by Jackey Backman

That’s what I woke up to today. 
Most of you I imagine have had  a ‘butt kicking’, but for those of you that haven’t had a ‘universal’ butt kicking, the difference is that you don’t see it coming, where in the more common butt kickings you know you’ve done something, push somebodies buttons, tempted fate…something. 
When the [...]

7. It is only what we resist that causes us pain?

Posted on Wednesday, Apr. 8th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions.
Here are the answers…
Question:  If it is only what we resist that causes us pain, does this  mean that if we have pain we are resisting something?
Answer:  Yes
Question:  If yes, what do I do to find out what that something is so [...]

6. What do you do when you feel angry with yourself for not doing things like…

Posted on Wednesday, Apr. 1st 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions…
here are the answers
Question:
6. What do you do when you feel angry with yourself for not doing good things like:
a) Not making decisions
b) Getting angry with others
c) Sorry too much

5. How do you know when you’re giving a 100%?

Posted on Wednesday, Mar. 25th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions…
Question:
5. How do you know when you’re giving a 100%?
Answer:
Just ask yourself, you’ll know if you try to lie
With the give a 100% - let me take a moment to touch on this.  During the Success
Intensive, I talk about giving [...]

Weekend thoughts - where we are suppose to be…

Posted on Friday, Mar. 20th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Comforted by the small rituals that prepare me for sleep, I ease into my bed, turn picking up my book I read until my eyelids become heavy, In a matter of moments my struggle to keep them open is lost. Awakening a few moments later, or perhaps a few hours have passed? I return my [...]

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4. What do you need to do – focus on how you can reach your goal or detach from the outcome?

Posted on Tuesday, Mar. 17th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions…
 
Question:
4. What do you need to do – focus on how you can reach your goal or detach from the outcome?
Answer:
Well you do both.  First you have to have a clearly stated goal.  We review this
process at the Success Intensive Event. (This year [...]

Timelines and Soul Sistas

Posted on Thursday, Mar. 12th 2009 by Jackey Backman

What a year I’ve been having!.   I haven’t dropped much personal information about my time out here in the Middle-East despite your requests.  It wasn’t a matter of not wanting to share its just that it’s been an exceptionally challenging growth filled year and I’ve had to sort things out in my own mind before [...]

3. If you’ve made a decision and someone is able to talk you out of it or change your decision, did you truly make that decision in the first place?

Posted on Monday, Mar. 9th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions.
 Here are the answers….
Question:
3. If you’ve made a decision and someone is able to talk you out of it or change your decision, did you truly make that decision in the first place?
Answer:
If you made a decision and then didn’t take action on [...]

2. What was the point of the Hologram metaphor?

Posted on Wednesday, Feb. 4th 2009 by Jackey Backman

Last year at Success Intensive Malta, we did an open session and took questions…
Here are the answers…
Question:
2. What was the point of the Hologram metaphor?
Answer:
I use the hologram as a metaphor in an attempt to help people understand that
in attracting to us what we want it is necessary that we are congruent
throughout. As we uncover throughout [...]

 

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